Thursday, December 10, 2009

I told him i loved him please help?

okay my and my ex bf dated and broke up and weve stayed friends. last night he got in a minor car crash..(he was hit by a drunk driver) and he cracked a rib. i got to thinking what if he had died..there goes one of my best friends and someone im not over. well when he got out of the hospital i texted him..and later on i told him im not over him and i love you. he said are you forreal? i said yes and he said i love you too. then about 20 minutes i said im going to bed night. he said goodnight i love you. BUT we're not dating...he just got out of a relationship..do i give him time..should i text him this morning like always do..(i say good morning sunshine) but should i add i love you to the end??



PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!



so:



1- what do i do about us not dating



2- should i text him and say i love you this morning



3- your total advice thanks



Ps...we're in 10th grade (BUT DONT LECTURE US)



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well first of i hope he gets better from his injuries quickly : )



um im in 10th grade too and i had a similar circumstance .. my bf and i broke up and we stayed friends but it made it hard to get over him finally he admitted he still loved me and i did too so now weve been together for 6 months !



I think it will be the same for yu too, yu sound like yu really like him and he obviously feels the same ! although he juzt got out of a relationship theres no need to stop what feels right because of it. wait till he feels a bit better and have a chat with him about it. go visit him and tell him itz something thats on yur mind. many would say dnt be a re - bound girl but i dont think thats the case at all because yu were together before and he said love so thatz a real commitment in juzt one simple word : D



as for the "not dating" that should change soon, he might even bring it up himself. if he dosnt just chuck in something maybe when he comes out of hospital make sure yur there give him a kiss on the cheek and if it feels right say something along the lines of "im so glad to be with you again" !



personally i think yu should add i love you in the text but i dont want to give yu advice that juzt jumps right on in ! lol



if this was only last night it might be too soon too straight away be back into "good mornings" and "i love you's"



so unless it feels like something that you need to do maybe just put a smiley face at the end of good morning sunshine " : ) " or a txt love heart " %26lt;3 "



Good luck !!



hope i helped : )



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this relationship obviously means alot to you even though you're in 10th grade. why dont you meet up with your friends together and take it back to the basics.Enjoy each others company again. i know this sounds old fashioned but it will take the stress out of it all. after all you still want to beable to have fun and for him to see the fun relaxed side of you right?intesne is too much sometimes even for old cronies. text him to see if he is alright. let things go at a natural pace after all friendship is important to you right yu wouldn't want to lose him as a friend would you.
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Aw thats cute. So it sounds like he loves you and you love him. Just see how it all plays out. Don't push ANYTHING. be pacient and smooth. Let him txt you too. Don't be the only one to say i love you good morning sunshine or whatever. He needs time and so do you. Make sure he doesn't mean i love you like a friend cuz that would be bad. I would txt him. But not like non stop. Don't be like clingy and annoying...even though your probably not anyway.I know this would be hard but i would just plain up ask him if you guys were dating again. It would be so much easier than to suffer...4 the both of you with out knowing. And if he says yes great and u would have wished u would have asked him sooner so u could spend more time 2gether. If he says no then give it time...he will come around. 10th grade isn't bad btw. I mean there is no age limit that says when you can love or when you can't love. So who ever gives you crap about that is just jealous that they didn't feel it then or even now. I hope i helped you e-mail me or IM me and tell me how it goes...



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just text him like regular without the i love you and see how he responds.
1-obviously you guys still have a connection and some chemistry together; be sure if you decide to hook up, that he is free of your ex and your free of your ex. when you were there for him at the hospital, you still had feelings. pick up where you left off.



2-yeah, but don't just run into it. start a convo first and then when it gets into a sentimental moment, just say it. it'll give you guys more of a connection



3-i think you should hook back up, but why did you guys break up? think about it. do you think that he will do what he did for you all to break up or is he serious this time?? i wish the best for you!!!



*Hope this helps!!*



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text him and say u love him
k normally I would just say, why did you put this in this section? butI can kind of relate to your situation, so I won't.



:) my exboyfriend and I are in the same situation... we're still really good friends, and he just broke his tailbone snowboarding, and I completely freaked.



anyways, I am SO happy for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would be so ecstatic if I were you. so congrats for that:



now. I think that you two should talk about what happened. talk about where you want your relationship to be going, but lay off the "I love you" texts until then. it might be too much too soon.



make sure he's over his ex (I'm assuming he is, but just wanna be sure) and then enjoy! try and make your relationship work this time!!!!



good luck!!!!!!!!!

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